If you’re dating, have ever dated, or plan to date anytime in the future, you should read this. «The type of person I’m assuming we’re looking for here is 1) someone that you will find fascinating to talk to after you’ve talked for 20,000 hours, 2) you feel comfortable with them talking through the hardest and most painful decisions you will face in your life, and 3) the conversation is wildly generative for both of you, in that it brings you out, helps you become.»

From Weekly Filet #426, in January 2023.