The title might be clickbait, but that’s fine for once. The more people read this, the better. The key problem in two colliding facts: 1. «Occasionally our coping mechanisms require transforming an abuse into something wanted, or at least something not so bad.» 2. «In a court of law, though, irrational reactions…can fatally undermine a victim’s credibility.»

From Weekly Filet #558, in January 2026.